In this podcast, I speak with Dave Stachowiak of the Coaching for Leaders podcast about my book (co-authored with Daniel Siegel), No Drama Discipline. Together we cover the below key points:
Much of what we do in the name of discipline is counter-productive.
The original meaning of the word “discipline” is to teach.
To effectively discipline (to teach kids skills to do better in the future), children have to be in a state of mind in which they can learn.
Consequences can be counter-productive.
If you’re being an effective disciplinarian, you should be disciplining less over time.
“Time-outs” don’t teach kids anything, but taking the time to step away from the situation to talk to your kids does teach.
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Book Notes
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