Posts Tagged ‘resolving conflict’
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Talking To Your Kids About the Brain: Upstairs and Downstairs
One thing I’ve learned over the last few years is that even young children are capable of understanding some important basics about the way their brain works. It might seem strange to talk to kids about the brain – it is brain science, after all – but a little neuroscience presented in just the right way can give your children control over themselves.
Here’s a way you might approach the topic of tantrums and other high-emotion moments. Sit down with your child and use your own words to say something like this:
Do you ever feel like a jack-in-the-box? Where you get upset, then more and more upset, and it feels like someone’s winding your crank tighter and tighter, and before long you’re going to explode? Think about a time when you did explode and make a bad decision because the pressure built up in you. Tell me about it.
In a moment like that, the downstairs part of your brain is Read the rest of this entry »
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Follow up: When you DO fight in front of your kids
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EMDbdw_EtA
(Thanks, Helen.)
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